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Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Friends, a non-exclusive relationship, another woman or its just a sex thing

Single, means non-exclusive or free to date whomever.  

 Friends with benefits
A non-exclusive relationship
Single and loving it!
or
An open relationship

As a single person and specifically a single female, it isn't easy to manage the types of friendships we may experience in the early stages of the being single.   Just Friends to me, typically means without any sexual interactions.  Not to some people.  I've been there in the past, after a domestic violence situation where my former partner swore he'd kill me and anyone I ever tried to date.  I didn't even consider dating for almost a year.  When I did, me and the person agreed we wouldn't even talk by phone and he didn't have my number nor did I have his.  

We saw each other often at a local sports complex, where we both played softball.  In fact, we saw each other and didn't even wave or say hello.  If it was Friday, I had a babysitter and we met for an hour or two and he went home.  We never went out for drinks, no movie, no conversations about our jobs and it was pretty convenient for that time in my life.  

We had a great arrangement. 

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